Oh my!  I can't believe I just wrote that!  Madonna or whore?  Madonna or whore?  Why are we made to feel as if we are either one or the other?  Is there no in-between space?  Should it really matter?  What is a "madonna," anyway?  What's the defintion of a "whore?"  Why must women be labeled in the first place?!  Why does our value lie with our sexuality?  Can we not just be a sexual being?  What if we don't want to use our sexual energy for sex?  We if we choose to transform it into another space?  What if we're too busy doing other things, and just choose not to use it at times?  What if sex is all we want to think about?  What if our proclivities are "outside the norm?"  Who is to say what we do with sexuality, or even if we do anything with it at all?!  It's our choice, and not society's (or your family's) business! 

Are you riled up yet?

Yes?  Good!  Then do something about it!  Create some awareness around how you truly see yourself as a woman.  That's what  Wise Woman Wednesdays is all about!

Please join me!