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Friday, February 1, 2019 from 11:30 AM to 1:00 PM EST
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First Friday Lunch, Learn and RESET!       


Our February 1 topic is

"RESET Your Buttons and Create Relationships that Work" 

“You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with,” - Jim Rohn.


So who are you in relationship with? How is it going? Does it take great effort or is it easy to work, play or live together? 

How are your relationships impacting the quality of your life? Even the very best relationships can always be better.

Join us this month in our RYB growing community to learn how to use the principles of RESET to move you from where you are to where you want to be in your personal and professional relationships.

Join a group of like minded people who are ready for a RESET. It may be a RESET in your career, in the way you approach your work, within your business or family.

Life can be harsh. Relationships at work, home and in our communities are occasionally difficult. We all need a place to pause, breathe and meet with people who face similar challenges and who have overcome those challenges. We want to learn from those who have walked a similar path and who have been there and done it.

RESET Your Buttons - First Friday is based on the principles of the book RESET Your Buttons® by Mary Elizabeth Murphy. The First Friday of every month we will gather over lunch to share conversation on ways to RESET.

The luncheon will include a brief presentation on ways to RESET Your Buttons and Create Relationships that Work - at home, in your career, in your community.

You will also have plenty of time to learn from the wisdom in the room. How do others RESET in similar situations. Make connections with those who are interested and willing to support you as you RESET Your Buttons.

Whether it's a life transition, career move, a better relationship with your money, a co-worker, your boss, a family member or a friend, we'll be talking about it and offering tips, tricks and resources to move you from where you are to where you want to be.

Each luncheon will provide you with information on ways to improve your relationships, including relationships with money, food, community, your health etc.

Maybe you are a business owner or in addition to your career you have a side hustle. Perhaps you are the head of the household, a caregiver to a family member,  a team or community leader and you are in search of how to RESET and capture that elusive butterfly some refer to as "life balance".

Join our community where each month we will be covering these topics and more using the RESET Your Buttons principles, the support of shared wisdom and solutions from subject matter experts.


Not sure if you'er ready to register yet? It's okay, that's normal. So here are a few more reasons to consider. RESET Your Buttons® - First Friday. It is more then a monthly luncheon event.

So much more! Every month we will meet on-line via  Zoom with other like minded folks and Mary Elizabeth. This virtual meeting will only be available for FREE to those who join the First Friday Luncheon. It will be held once a month so you will have not one, but two opportunnites a month to RESET Your Buttons.

Want more? Okay! Come to this luncheon on Friday, February 1 and learn more about what is in works for members of our community.We have many goodies ready for you - and only when you're ready.

No pressure, no hype. Just a group of like minded folks who have a feeling that there is something in their life that is ready for a RESET, or who simply want to learn ways to Create Relationships that Work!

For now, all you have to do is register to join us on the First Friday, Feb 1.

Reserve your seat at the table, show up and have lunch.

Well, we may also ask you to introduce yourself - because that is how we will get to know each other.

And that's it.

Register, arrive, introduce yourself, have lunch. We will take care of the rest. Because the First Friday Luncheon  is your time to RESET Your Buttons

Plan to arrive at 11:30 am to meet others

Lunch will be served near noon allowing time for conversation

Learn ways to RESET Your Buttons and Create Relationships that Work. During lunch we will have a facilitator led conversation that will include ways to RESET as well as learn from the wisdom in the room.

Meeting closes at 1:00 pm

 Okay - you're still not sure and you need a little more incentive. We get it. It's something new and it means getting out of your normal routine - not to mention the whole meeting new people thing.

We promise it will be worth it.

And to sweeten the deal just a little bit more - this month we have a special grab bag if goddies from books to blankets. The first 5 to register will be eligible to draw for thier gift in the order they register.

And we don't want anyone leaving without a momento from this First Friday. After all it is relationship month so everyone who attends gets a car! Ooops - no you don't get a car. You do get a special treat because we appreciate being in relationship with you and having you as part of our RESET Your Buttons growing communtiy.

Everyone who registers will also receive a Free gift from our sponsor Spa Botanica.

Everyone who attends will receive access to the 3rd Thursday RESET Your Buttons Virtual Meeting (a $25.00 value) on Feb. 21th. This is the monthly RESET Your Buttons Virtual meeting with Mary Elizabeth that you can attend from the comfort of your couch, using your computer, cell phone or tablet. New time 7:00 pm et.

Still more - it's good to want more! You will also receive a $10.00 discount on the fee for the March 1, First Friday Luncheon.. Now that's a deal.

Oh and did we mention we have limited seating? Okay, well we do have limted seating. So register today! . We have reserved a private dining room in Rocky River Grill for 24 people.

So, no kidding - we really do have limited seating and pre-registeration is required to attend. So click the button below - now!


You're still here? haven't clicked and registered yet?

Okay, hey, we get it - stuff happens. You're wondering what if something comes up and you can't make it? Never fear we got this ....

Registrations are non-refundable, you understand, we have costs and guarantees and such,  however they will be transferable to another person as long as we know by January. 30.

That's fair, right? We were going to make it a week prior but we think we should be able to handle a few name badge switch-a-roos within a day of the luncheon. We may change this policy in the future.

" ... see, it's okay not to know how to do everything perfectly: not to know what to expect; not to know exactly how to be ready; it's really OK NOT TO KNOW!!! As Mary Elizabeth points out, we have never experienced the next moments of our lives before ... so how can we possibly know how to live them?

Mary Elizabeth reminds us that our reactions to situations at home, at work and other  social arenas are all based on our core values and how we respond to challenges to those values. The goal is to be a self-directed person, not an other directed person; the goal is to be someone who sets, or re-sets our own buttons - taking away the power of others to 'push our buttons.' We can learn to be a person who says 'I choose to' rather than a person who says 'I have to.'

This book is a 'how to' for all of us to learn how to be the kind of person we want to be and know we can be ... and have the tools to be. We just have to do some work to get there!"  - Jay Polzien

Once you learn the language and are a part of the RESET community, you never know when a situation will present itself to use it. - Shaun Moore